I have grieved the loss of loved ones and of pets and the benefit of experience doesn't soften loss. We said goodbye to our beloved Cookie today. She didn't understand why she was up on the table and she was sorely afraid, trembling. Lois and I were with her at the vet clinic when the doctor pushed the pentathol syringe that ended her pain. We hugged her lifeless body and cried. We hugged each other and cried. Cookie's pain was over and I believe that there is a heavenly reward for these faithful critters who love us unconditionally. No preacher can dissuade me, even if he quotes chapter and verse.
Cookie's life had declined over the last few years. She still ate and still was very much a part of us, but she needed for us to support her hindquarters with an sling so she wouldn't fall. I built a ramp for her on the front porch. Things went on as usual for a few years then the decline steepened. Cookie's quality of life was gone.
We grieved two of Cookie's predecessors, Teddy and Heidi, our first dog. We will probably do it again soon as our little bichon, Corky, well into old age is at the end of her dear little life.. Her faculties are failing and there are times that only Lois' lap can fix.
We'll probably grieve another dog's passing before we pass away and it won't be any easier.
